tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post505044806240007833..comments2023-07-12T06:26:17.735-02:00Comments on Motherhood Deleted: Un-writing Re-written HistoryRobinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07580241881953821182noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-27502354752465186892010-07-06T16:36:02.282-02:002010-07-06T16:36:02.282-02:00Kitta here:
adoption is a gov't program, and ...Kitta here:<br /><br />adoption is a gov't program, and it continues to be so. Our gov't does not listen to natural mothers or the few fathers who testify, because the gov't is still promoting adoption.<br /><br />Even adopted people who testify to their own pain...are not heard.<br /><br />I have testified in gov't legislative committees, for over 15 years. The response from the gov't is always the same:<br /><br />"the gov't is interested in seeing the numbers of adoptions go UP. The gov't wants more children to be adopted."<br /><br />The gov't sees adoption as a money-saver...I do not think this is true. I think that overall..adoption causes harm and instability which costs much more than family preservation ever could.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-9136733746743484522010-07-04T16:17:50.348-02:002010-07-04T16:17:50.348-02:00Robin,
Although, we as mother's from the BSE ...Robin,<br /><br />Although, we as mother's from the BSE have tried to get our stories told to media, to our grown adult children both lost and found, and to our sister's who are younger and being used by the adoption machine, we are<br />still fighting the fight to expose the truth.<br /><br />We as mother's of that era were silenced to not speak about it. Coerced into an inhumane place to appease an adopter. Used and abused by those who could use us for out babies. I will no longer go back to that place. Never...ever. <br /><br />Problem is the truth is NEVER pretty, it is the underbelly of the ugliness in adoption. Those who don't want to hear truth just want to ignore the pain, suffering and injustice brought by forced surrender. Those who have lost babies after us, have lost their babies in a different form, by careful marketing to the mother. WE were forced to surrender because they picked us off like prey for the predators needs, the adopters.<br /><br />These are the facts, the truth, and acknowledging the truth sets one free. I have and I am glad to say my mother is finally acknowledging her part in the loss of my son.<br /><br />GaleAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-68049807561658521142010-07-04T15:48:27.423-02:002010-07-04T15:48:27.423-02:00Unfortunately, we cannot even get the EMS mothers ...Unfortunately, we cannot even get the EMS mothers together...lol. There are so many Divas that wish that their not-typical experience was typical by denying there was a typical that they are the ones who seem to be the most active at re-writing the history of the EMS. Rather like the deformers in adoption reform, who settle for crumbs, so do many of the mothers of the EMS work to change the facts and deny the typical.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17088288948654864117noreply@blogger.com