tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post1638478165941524481..comments2023-07-12T06:26:17.735-02:00Comments on Motherhood Deleted: Sitting In The Sue-Her SewerRobinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07580241881953821182noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-50537405141742179392010-03-06T10:02:47.022-02:002010-03-06T10:02:47.022-02:00kdawber, I wish that could happen. But I have no f...kdawber, I wish that could happen. But I have no faith in adopters being a cooperative part of that issue. Maybe a few might realize that there is no such real thing as "as if born to," but for most, I am willing to bet that ABC is a big part of their fantasy. Not many of them would want to admit to the fact that we were coerced out of our babies. Talking to one adopter at the YMCA, she refuses to see her adopted, adult children as anything but a "gift." I told her that, if they were a gift, they certainly were not freely given.<br /><br />I guess I am just not very agreeable where adopters are concerned. I don't trust them any more than I trust the NCFA or the EBDI, etc. JMORobinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07580241881953821182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-1031003914487257282010-03-06T00:30:59.181-02:002010-03-06T00:30:59.181-02:00Mother F___! This OBC medical info. legislation i...Mother F___! This OBC medical info. legislation is getting me wondering if we shouldn't be asking if this isn't like putting the cart before the horse? Why aren't legislators investigating eliminating amended false birth certificates? That would seem to be much more simple. Why can't we all (adopters, adoptees and natural parents) agree on no amended birth certificates and make the agencies go back and fix their own screw ups.kdawbernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-4758334371811025162010-03-05T03:52:13.789-02:002010-03-05T03:52:13.789-02:00Kitta here:
wanta hear a scarier law? California ...Kitta here:<br /><br />wanta hear a scarier law? California has been taking DNA samples from 'birthmoms" and "birthdads' since 1984. These tissue and blood samples are in storage and god only knows what they can and are being used for.<br /><br />Cali also takes a ten page family history from the natural parents at the time of surrender. It has questions on every relative and every body system and organ. All of the relatives' histories are asked for.<br /><br />The pending NY bill, S5269, requires a "complete and accurate family medical history as a civil right" at the time of surrender also. This means that if the surrendering parents leave anything out, they can be held liable and negligent by their own children...or their children's spouses should the children die, or their grandchildren, etc.<br /><br />Needless to say, no one else in the USA has to fulfill this "requirement".<br /><br />I wonder if adopted people who are supporting this bill realize that they too will fall under the legal requirements of this law, if anyone in their bio-family surrenders a child *after* they are reunited or become known to their natural family?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-50951101657268899772010-03-05T02:58:38.798-02:002010-03-05T02:58:38.798-02:00Subrogation - what a lovely legal term. All the l...Subrogation - what a lovely legal term. All the law does is make us liable to the same people that screwed us in the first place. The states, the agencies, good thing our parents aren't around. Or they would get a piece too.<br /><br />I give up, a new way to get screwed without a kiss.<br /><br />They can sue me 10 ways to Sunday - it wasn't my idea for an adoption in the first place.Lorihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05815710859859029536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-84653578322758860182010-03-04T23:57:36.527-02:002010-03-04T23:57:36.527-02:00Plenty of mothers out there, better wake up and sm...Plenty of mothers out there, better wake up and smell the 'real' smell of the government coffee that these open records bills are serving. I have already tasted this government coffee and it ain't worth the price they are charging. Folgers-French Roast tastes a whole lot better and a whole lot cheaper, in the long run.Mandy Lifeboatsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-17938614115867283182010-03-04T21:46:27.048-02:002010-03-04T21:46:27.048-02:00Yup!Yup!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17088288948654864117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-69113036593964000032010-03-04T21:41:51.687-02:002010-03-04T21:41:51.687-02:00Yup!Yup!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17088288948654864117noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-51156075050777974222010-03-04T16:06:20.752-02:002010-03-04T16:06:20.752-02:00"I am no longer the frightened naif that was ..."I am no longer the frightened naif that was isolated and coerced and shamed by those that should have protected me. <br /><br />I grew up and this Mama don't play that game0"<br /><br />AMEN sista!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com