tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post2966821251626718047..comments2023-07-12T06:26:17.735-02:00Comments on Motherhood Deleted: The Myth of the TriadRobinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07580241881953821182noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-300640068915743972011-10-11T15:47:49.932-02:002011-10-11T15:47:49.932-02:00That's funny. Hanne reposted this entry on FB...That's funny. Hanne reposted this entry on FB. It looked familiar, but I thought it was new anyway. duh! Anyway, it always good to read again.Marley Greinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15184124024369071862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-20680790181946462722011-10-11T14:16:06.739-02:002011-10-11T14:16:06.739-02:00Thanks for heading people up on my blog.
After ...Thanks for heading people up on my blog. <br /><br />After I read what you just posted, I went over to Google Images and looked at triangles and other geometric shapes and can find nothing there that relates to adoption structure. Somebody always comes out short, equal or overbearing. <br /><br />I've found it amusing that people are hung up on this. We have, in no special order the "adoption" circle, triad, triangle, constellation, pentagram. While geometry may explain a lot of things unless one is some high fallutin' mathematician (maybe) geometry just doesn't cut it in this case. Besides, it's something deformers always use at hearings when they want to look reasonable and nice and kiss ass.<br /><br />Hey, maybe a cross would be a good analogy. A long horizontal plank on which mothers and bastards get nailed. Oh, did I say that? I think I'll copy that thought on to Bastrdette today as I await my use to write the last two paragraphs of the long piece I'm working on.<br /><br />There's always the garbage can analogy.Marley Greinerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15184124024369071862noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-90999520731503477402010-12-30T10:53:21.518-02:002010-12-30T10:53:21.518-02:00Anon, maybe, in reunion, it is our expectations th...Anon, maybe, in reunion, it is our expectations that are disappointed. All involved are human and I am beginning to see that the meat grinder has also given many of us very unrealistic expectations across the board. <br /><br />Mothers don't have the cards, either. It's the adopters and the industry that are in the top cat seats.Robinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07580241881953821182noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-38979274960212455112010-12-29T23:25:40.887-02:002010-12-29T23:25:40.887-02:00Adoptees have no cards. Adoptive parents are dis...Adoptees have no cards. Adoptive parents are disappointed in where we came from - and after reunion parents are disappointed in where we've been raised. <br />Everyone is dissatisfied with the adoption meat grinder -- but we end being individually disappointed in each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-89097766112178421612009-09-09T19:51:14.391-02:002009-09-09T19:51:14.391-02:00ah...thanks Robin. And in my 26 year reunion with ...ah...thanks Robin. And in my 26 year reunion with my daughter, they also held the cards with the highest points. Not all the cards, but I was never an equal in their mind. And jane, see-sawed back and forth.Lorraine Duskyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18285341379272250245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-64442689477774879362009-08-31T18:52:27.059-02:002009-08-31T18:52:27.059-02:00Hi- I'm a 40 year old adoptee and I'm not ...Hi- I'm a 40 year old adoptee and I'm not even sure how I wandered onto your site, but I'm enjoying it enormously! I have read a number of your older posts and love your voice and what you're saying. I'm sorry to post this as a comment, but I couldn't find an 'email me' link. <br /><br />Thanks for your blog-- I'll check it often!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16112017148872087529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33752164.post-54551994885608836352009-08-30T13:01:08.862-02:002009-08-30T13:01:08.862-02:00You and I must be on the same wavelength today bec...You and I must be on the same wavelength today because I just posted a blog about this, after being (once again) highly annoyed by biased adoption coverage in my morning paper.Triona Guidryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00969598333210972017noreply@blogger.com